Sunday, January 22, 2012
Pregnant or not? so i had with this girl in march.had a falling out. she's claims to b (P) through text?
She might be pregnant she might be lying, either way you'll know in 9 months. Baby or not if you don't want to be with her don't. You should consider severing ties with her because from what you said the only thing she is interested in is getting you back. You can't have a decent friendship like that. What she does with the baby is her decision and you can't do anything about it so don't waste your energy being angry she won't abort. It is difficult to describe what a woman has to go through physically and emotionally when they abort. It really isn't worth it. If she does have a baby don't pay her a dime of child support without a DNA test. My brother dated this psychotic girl once who moved out of state then called us to tell us she was pregnant. She moved back and sued my brother for child support. The court systems will put it through based on the word of the mother you have to ask them to give you a DNA test to stop the child support. I told my brother the same thing I told you about not paying and he listened. The baby wasn't his. She got pregnant by some guy from the other state but tried to pin it on my brother because the other guy was in jail and couldn't pay child support. If it is yours and you don't want anything to do with it give up your parental rights. If you want to be part of the child's life be the best father you can be, no one can be perfect. Child support is based on your income and there are laws about leaving you enough money for food, rent, and bills. Just don't be there sometimes and not others. The child will grow up resenting you. Its best to be there completely or not at all. You don't have to be involved with her to be involved with your child. Good luck.
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